memory

memory, that is something that kofanna reminded me last nite.

that's what she said to me.
"last time your friend asked you to go watch a moive, you said you wanted to save money and not going. today, you spent so much to buy quilt and pillow."

"that is different. i buy quilt and pillow i can use it and it's tangible. after you watched a movie, what can you get?" i replied.

then she continued.
"no. when you go watching movie with your friend, that is a quality time that you share with your friends, a good memory shared between you and your friends and that is priceless."

yes, it's really true.
sometimes, i think i am too into my savings plan and overlook something which is also important.
a memory, that is something that we will talk about when we grow old. :D

so, i think i need to balance it out between what to spend and what to save.
focusing too much on one side is always not very good :)